Afraid of public opinion, I did not dare to betray my husband, lots of threads

Afraid of public opinion, I did not dare to betray my husband, lots of threads

The husband-in-law let me know that he has a young wife who is an elderly woman and hid from giving me any more information.



I am over 45, 50 years old husband, married for 20 years, have a daughter in high school. My husband and I are civil servants. He is funny, know how to treat people but hot-tempered. I was quiet and quiet, life was hard at first, but I felt satisfied and trusted my husband.



Ten years later, I knew my husband was involved in lots of loans and owe a lot, but because he loved him, I advised him and also borrowed money to pay him back. At the same time, I discovered my husband has a boyfriend. I didn't catch it but the wife's feelings from her husband's accusations denounce it. My mother knew that he had a boyfriend, so he invited him to talk. He acknowledged and promised to take care of my mother and child. I did not confide in anyone, very sad and suicidal but thought of my child when I was 8 years old. Then I rushed to work, earning money to pay off my husband's debt, giving me little encouragement to fix it. I also promise not to gamble anymore. He left her and I always did not care, the family encountered difficulties but saw him loving his wife and children more, I was very happy.



The next 5 years, I found him still playing lottery. I was so disappointed, repaying him, making such sacrifices made no sense to him. I was sad and planned to divorce, but because I loved my children so much at that time, I did not care if I chose to live with my husband. no argument. The affection of husband and wife still exists, but I find myself helpless without advising him. His salary and my main profit is the words, life is more difficult when the daughter is older, the need for study is also much. I just let life go by.



About 6 months now, I know you have an affair again. This woman I know very well because she is an acquaintance and he admitted. I think the wife has merit, the husband does not support, knows how to love his wife and children when they have to face difficulties with him, but without a comfortable economic life, he also has a perfect love for his wife and children. I talked to my husband, and he promised not to contact that girl again. I ignored. As far as I know the person my husband cheated on had a new one, they probably didn't contact each other anymore.



However, my husband's family let me know that he has a young wife who is an elderly woman and hid from giving me any more information. I didn't want to learn more but believed it to be true. Everyday he goes back to normal but cold to me. I think my husband is for money and also has feelings for some older woman. I feel that my husband no longer has feelings for me, living only because my child should ask "did you stop loving me", he didn't admit it, or made me apologize for trifles. Every time you quarrel, say "don't believe, divorce".



There are times when I think about divorce but I'm worried if I leave him now, the public thinks that I have a bit of position, finds him very indebted, so he left. But no one understands how he committed adultery one after another, how hurt I am. Second, I am afraid my daughter will be sad because I love my father very much, and I still have feelings for my husband. I did not see hope for this marriage but was not brave enough to give up. Please everyone give me advice. Sincerely thank.



Dieu