My wife always decided everything, making me and my husband follow

My wife always decided everything, making me and my husband listen

When arguing, she criticized me for being poor, criticizing her husband for not buying a house, telling me that I was nothing and demanding a divorce.



My wife and I live in more than a hundred kilometers apart, currently working in the city. My wife was born in a well-off family, was happy from a young age, and I was the opposite. Regarding spending, earn one, spend a wife 1.5. I'm hot-tempered, easy to scowl. And now I follow the Buddha Dharma a lot, everything is offset so it helps.



From the date of marriage, sometimes the couple visit their grandparents. The first New Year came to my husband's house, on the second day of the Lunar New Year, when the doctors were away from home for decades, my mother told my wife and I to stay for lunch and then go home, but the wife said "Mom does not give, please go back". . So that morning, I returned home. My parents are also easy going, not saying anything. But more and more, my wife made herself more determined and refused to listen to anyone. When my child was born, she decided how much time she would spend at home to stay without listening to my grandmother and my grandmother's orders. After coming back to her husband's house for a few weeks, she wanted to go to the city to live, if she did not come to work together, she would show an attitude (I have not yet finished the maternity regime).



I sat and talked with my wife many times but I just argued. When arguing, she criticized me for being poor, criticizing her husband's house for not buying money for buying a house, cutting bread and pouring wine on the wedding day (the custom I did not have), telling me that I was nothing and demanding divorce. I know everyone has a point and that point should accept, moreover because of loving his wife and children. But the more the wife became too much with my whole family, forcing everyone to follow her wishes. I know I'm not well-off, trying to make my life better but can't meet it.



I was wondering whether I should give the city home to relieve my burden. However, my wife decided not to go home, telling me I wanted to go home. If in the city, with the current income will be difficult to meet the needs of his wife. The most important is my calculation like that. Actually I could not accept any more when all his decisions, wife refused to listen and always determined. All day long you insist on going back home, I feel unappreciated. Hope that all of you can help me and my wife and I should stay together again? I was so confused.



Hai