My wife wants me to quit a job close to 13 million VND to go to Japan to work

My wife wants me to quit a job close to 13 million VND to go to Japan to work

My wife saw many people going to Japan with remittances, so I told her to find the opportunity to go to Japan for a few years, to earn some money to help her later.



I am 32 years old, my wife is 28, has a 3-year-old child, lives in the suburbs and now has a decent house and a savings book of VND 200 million. Previously, I worked for a Japanese corporation, the monthly income fluctuated about 18 million, the company was 40 km away from home, everyday I had to leave home from 6:10 and go home at 19h00 (time to travel is more than 3 hours). After 6 years of work, I also had a certain position in the company, but the distance traveled and the pressure of work made me tired so I decided to switch jobs near my home. Four months ago, I went to work for a Japanese company, 10 km away from home, where I had to start over and get a salary of 13 million a month.



After returning home, I found the advantage of having a lot of time for my family, improved health, a meaningful life when growing my own vegetables, raising chickens, getting up early to go to the gym, and taking my kids to and from home. Class, in the afternoon go on a walk. But the downside is the opportunity to advance very slowly. Even so the work is not as much pressure as before.



Currently, my husband and I have an income of 20 million dong in May, after deducting all expenses, we have about 8-10 million surplus. With the savings of 200 million, my wife always wanted me to borrow more, buy a car (Class A) so that I could go to work and drive my wife and children whenever I returned to my grandparents (my grandmother's family is 6 km away from my house). I do not want to because if buying a car, I no longer accumulate debt. I explained it to my wife but she seemed dissatisfied, and telling me that people were increasing their salaries, I was getting more and more depressed, which made me even discouraged.



Recently, my wife saw many people going to Japan with remittances, so she told me to find the opportunity to go to Japan for a few years, to earn some money to help with the future. I told my wife that if I went to love only my mother and children at home, I wanted to have another child because I was 32 years old. My wife told me that at home, I will be able to raise her child, and that another child will be fine after I go home to give birth.



If I go to Japan, I'll find orders for engineers to go for free (I have a university degree and Japanese language is okay), but I'm really confused. May everyone have the sincere advice for me. Thank you.



Thai